Simple Basic Wedding Ceremony
The step which you are about
to take is the most important into which human
beings can come. It is a union of two people
founded upon mutual respect and affection. Your
lives will change, your responsibilities will
increase, but your joy will be multiplied if you
are sincere and earnest with your pledge to one
another.
__(Groom)___________, will
you have this woman to be your wedded wife, to
love her, comfort her, honor and keep her, and
forsaking all others, keep you only unto her, for
so long as you both shall live?
_ (Bride)____________, will
you have this man to be your wedded husband, to
love him, comfort him, honor and keep him, and
forsaking all others, keep you only unto him, so
long as you both shall live?
Take hands and repeat after
me: I, __(Groom)___________, take you,
__(Bride)___________, to be my wedded wife, to
have and to hold, for better for worse, for richer
for poorer, to love and to cherish, from this day
forward.
I, ___(Bride)________, take
you, _(Groom)__________, to be my wedded husband,
to have and to hold, for better for worse, for
richer for poorer, to love and to cherish, from
this day forward.
Do you have a ring for the
bride? Please place the ring on the bride's
finger and say: With this ring, I thee wed.
Is there a ring for the
groom? Please place the ring on the groom's finger
and say: With this ring I thee wed.
Let these rings be given and
received as a token of your affection, sincerity
and fidelity to one another.
In as much as _____________
and _____________ have consented together in
wedlock and have witnessed the same before this
company, and pledged their vows to each other, by
the authority vested in me by the State of
Louisiana, I now pronounce you husband and wife.
(You may now kiss .)
This is one of those
occasions that have the distinction of being both
festive and solemn at the same time.
This is a ceremony
and a festival in which we all have a part. This
man, (Husband), and this woman, (Wife), are here
today to publicly give their marriage vows to each
other. We are here both as witnesses to these vows
and to celebrate with Husband and Wife their
partnership.
In the final
accounting, love and the search for love, are what
life is all about. Love is many things, Love is
patient, Love is kind. It does not envy, it does
not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is
not self-seeking. It is not easily angered, it
keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight
in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always
protects, always trusts, always hopes, always
perseveres. The fulfillment of love in marriage
and union it symbolizes is one of life's highest
experiences.
It used to be said
that in marriage man and woman are one. Husband
and Wife understand and believe that this sharing
of their lives is not at the expense of either
person's individuality; but rather that each of
these partners is all the stronger for having two
people -- two wills -- two bodies -- to rely on
and trust.
We give of ourselves
in love; but we do not give our individuality
away, because it is the individuality and
uniqueness of character that the other person
needs, and that drew these people together. A good
and balanced relationship is one in which neither
person is overpowered nor absorbed by the other.
The strength of the marriage comes not from a
melting of two into one; but rather from a forging
of two unique and valuable individuals inseparably
to each other.
We assembled will
witness the vows these people make; but the true
union between these people is that private union
in their hearts. Into this estate these two people
come to give their vows in mutual love, concern,
trust and respect.
Please hold hands.
Husband and Wife, the vows that you make will be
witnessed here today. Please repeat after me: I
take you Wife to be my wife, lover and best friend
and these things I promise to you: I will be
faithful to you and honest with you/ I will
respect, trust, help and care for you/ I will
share my life with you/ I will share with you
everything that is to come throughout the rest of
our lives together.
I take you Husband to
be my husband, lover and best friend and these
things I promise to you: I will be faithful to you
and honest with you/ I will respect, trust, help
and care for you/ I will share my life with you/ I
will share with you everything that is to come
throughout the rest of our lives together.
Husband, place this
ring on wife's finger and repeat after me: This
ring is a sign of my love and commitment to you.
Wife, place this ring
on husband's finger and repeat after me: This ring
is a sign of my love and commitment to you.
Inasmuch as Husband
and Wife have this day consented together in the
Estate of Matrimony, and have given and pledged
their faith to each other in the presence of this
company, by the virtue of the authority vested in
me under the laws of the State of Florida, I
pronounce you husband and wife.
CIVIL WEDDING
CEREMONY III
In marriage you make
the most beautiful commitment in life; to love
each other forever.
You will share work
and play, happiness and sadness, goals and values,
family and friends, excitement and boredom.
You will build a
life, which is stronger because you are nowt part
of a team, a team that will go through life
holding hands, always rooting for each other.
In marriage you make
the most beautiful commitment in life; two people
in love joining together to become one forever.
We are here today to
celebrate the marriage of (Wife) and (Husband).
The solemn vows about to be exchanged should not
be entered into unadvisedly, but reverently, and
with love and commitment in your hearts. The vows
you take today will join your lives and by the
rings you will wear, you will be known to all as
Husband and Wife.
(Husband) will you
take (wife) to be your lawfully wedded wife, to
live together in the estate of matrimony? Will you
love her, comfort her, honor, and keep her in
sickness and in health, and forsaking all others
keep you only unto her for as long as you both
shall live? (Husband answers, "I will.")
(Wife) will you take
(husband) to be your lawfully wedded husband, to
live together in the estate of matrimony? Will you
love him, comfort him, honor, and keep him in
sickness and in health, and forsaking all others
keep you only unto him for as long, as you both
shall live? (Wife answers, "I will.")
(Husband and Wife),
as you pledge your vows to each other, please face
each other and repeat after me: I, (Husband), take
thee (Wife) to be my wedded wife, to have and to
hold from this day forward, for better or for
worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and
in health, to love and to cherish, from now until
forever.
I, (Wife), take thee
(Husband) to be my wedded husband, to have and to
hold from this day forward, for better or for
worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and
in health, to love and to cherish, from now until
forever.
The perfect circle of
a ring symbolizes eternity and the gold is a
symbol of all that is pure. Our prayer for
(Husband and Wife) is that their love for each
other will be as eternal and pure as these rings.
(Husband) do you give
his ring to (Wife) as a token of your love for
her? Then place this ring on her finger and repeat
after me: (Wife) I give you this ring as a symbol
of my vows, and will all that I have and with all
that I am, I honor you.
(Wife) do you give
this ring to (Husband) as a token of your love for
him? Then place this ring on his finger and repeat
after me: (Husband) I give you this ring as a
symbol of my vows, and will all that I have and
with all that I am, I honor you.
From this day
forward, I will be here for you-I will sing your
joys, cry your sorrows, and stand by your side
through whatever life may bring your way. From
this day forward, through good times and bad, I
will live with you, grow and change with you, I
will do all I can to keep our marriage strong and
happy and alive with possibilities. From this day
forward, I will cherish you-I will look with joy
down the path of our tomorrows and find peace and
happiness knowing we will walk in it together,
side by side, hand in hand, and heart to heart.
Inasmuch as (Wife)
and (Husband) have consented today in wedlock and
have given and pledged their faith each to the
other in the presence of these witnesses, by
virtue of the authority vested in me by the laws
of the State of Florida, it gives me great
pleasure to pronounce you husband and wife.
More basic
vows:
Sample Wedding Vows 1
(Same vow may be recited by bride and groom.)
[NAME], I take you to be my lawfully wedding
[HUSBAND/WIFE]. Before these witnesses I vow to
love you and care for you as long as we both shall
live. I take you, with all your faults and your
strengths, as I offer myself to you with my faults
and my strengths. I will help you when you need
help,
and will turn to you when I need help. I choose
you as the person with whom I will spend my life.
Sample Wedding Vows 2
(Same vow may be recited by bride and groom.)
I,_____, take you, _____, to be my_____, and
these things I promise you:
I will be faithful to you and honest with you;
I will respect, truth, help and care for you;
I will share my life with you;
I will forgive you as we have been forgiven;
and I will try with you better to understand
ourselves, the world, and God;
through the best and the worst of what is to come
as long as we live.
Sample Wedding Vows 3
Groom:
_____, I love you. Today is a very special day.
Long ago you were just a dream and a prayer. This
day like a dream come true the Lord Himself has
answered that prayer. For today, _____, you as my
joy become my crown. I thank Jesus for the honor
of going through time with you. Thank you for
being what you are to me. With our future as
bright as the promises of God, I will care for
you, honor and protect you. I lay down my life for
you, _____, my friend and my love. Today I give to
you me.
Bride:
_____, I love you and I know you love me. I am
confident that God has chosen you to be my
husband. It is my prayer and desire that you will
find in me the helpmeet God designed especially
for you, and in confidence I will submit myself
unto your headship as unto our Lord. Therefore,
_____, I pledge to you my life as an obedient,
faithful and loving wife. Whither thou goest I
will go, whither thou lodgest I will lodge, Thy
people shall be my people, And thy God my God.
Sample Wedding Vows 4
Groom:
There was darkness for a long time and then there
was light, and that light was you. Your love has
given me wings, and our journey begins today. I
pledge before this assembled company to be your
husband from this day forward. Let us make of our
two lives one life. I want you for today,
tomorrow, and forever.
Bride:
I have dreamed my whole life of having someone as
wonderful as you love me the way you do. I give
myself to you as your wife, and I promise here to
treasure for all of my days the love we celebrate
today. Let us bring together our lives and find
ourselves anew each day.
Sample Wedding Vows 5
Groom:
I _____, take you _____, to be my wedded wife. To
have and to hold, from this day forward, for
better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in
sickness or in health, to love and to cherish
'till death do us part. And hereto I pledge you my
faithfulness.
Bride:
I, _____, take you _____, to be my wedded husband.
To have and to hold, from this day forward, for
better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in
sickness and in health, to love and to cherish,
'till death do us part. And hereto I pledge you my
faithfulness.
Sample Wedding Vows 6
(Same vow may be recited by bride and groom.)
I, _____, take you,_____, to be my friend, my
lover, the (mother/father) of my children and my
(husband/wife). I will be yours in times of plenty
and in times of want, in times of sickness and in
times of health, in times of joy and in times of
sorrow, in times of failure and in times of
triumph. I promise to cherish and respect you, to
care and protect you, to comfort and encourage
you, and stay with you, for all eternity.
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